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Were all searching for our forever person.
You know who Im talking about. The person who you meet and just without having to state it that youre going to be in it for the long haul together.
Maybe they have perfect answers to all of your questions. Maybe they engage in a series of subtle behaviors that makes your heart soar. Maybe they just have that , that makes you want to hang up your single status for good and surrender to a never-ending romance.
Except for one tiny caveat, which is this:
Because forever people arent
They are not soul mates who were packaged up at birth with a secret label under their skin identifying them as the person youre meant to grow old with. Forever doesnt work like that.
Forever isnt a status you lock down on your eighth date when they answer fifty questions correctly or do thirty-three micro things right.
It isnt the prize you earn for keeping your abs toned and your hair highlighted and for using the exact right flirty emoji every single time.
Forever isnt a dating level that you unlock mastering the first date trivia and dodging conflict grenades until youve earned enough bonus points to cash in for a lifetime of relationship security.
Forever is never a guarantee in any relationship, for any two people, ever.
Forever happens through a series of choices that two people make day in and day out, for as long as theyre invested in loving each other. Forever happens through the conscious act of choosing each other through every fight, every trial, every wholly unglamorous bump in the road that makes both of you want to run for the hills.
Forever isnt about a magical sense of compatibility that saves you from any future trials. Its the ongoing commitment to keep choosing each other. Through every challenge. Through every struggle. Through every argument that pushes your limits.
It doesnt click into place when an engagement ring gets chosen or a priest declares you legally bound.
Forever is what happens when thousands upon thousands of individual days end up adding up to a lifetime spent together.
Theres nothing magical, mystical or incredulous about meeting your forever person.
Because youre never going to meet someone who can guarantee forever right away.
But if youre willing to put in some damn hard work, you might just be able to build a forever from scratch.
Read more: http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2016/10/heres-the-truth-about-when-you-will-find-your-forever-person/
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